放下

突然被朋友问了一句：

‘假如你发现你的前任男友结婚了，你的反应会是什么?’

愣住。。。

‘嗯。。。看你是否还在意他。但应该会使祝福他’

过后又多口问了一句：

‘那你当时很伤心吗？’

‘没有喔！只是有点低落而已’

‘但是应该感谢他，让我现在找到了一位更好的男朋友’

好喜欢她的这一句，我们应该知足。

感情世界里，假如时常钻牛角尖，没有学习放下，受伤及辛苦的只有自己。

P/S:纯粹觉得很有意思，希望还在感情迷失的朋友可以早日找到另一片幸福。

Relationship??

Today get a phone call from my secondary school friend. She has some mixed feeling after accidently met someone who she cares so much before. I can't help her too much, just to be a good listener to her.

A couple who break up can't be friends anymore?

There are a few examples around me that prove this question. They try to avoid each other, not more phone call, sms, meet up. Refuse to listen any update news from them. Even they meet on the street, one of them will choose to other way just to avoid the eye contact. In the end, they will be same as strangers to each others. What a sad ending to both of them.

Human is so special and cruel, they can express their love easily and also forget about their last love so easy.. The promise given last time could be abandoned once the feeling is lost. All of those sweet memories are left behind. The thing remained is only broken heart...

I am not mentioning here that all of the break up couples will end up like this. Just that I can see most of them could not avoid this kind of ending. Personally I think that losing a good friends in our life is pity, especially those who you appreciate so much. However, if two of them really not suitable, they should let them free to find their own true love.

What am I talking nonsense here? In conclusion, relationship is a difficult subject in our life. There are alot to learn.

偶像*追星

听着偶像SHE的歌曲，依然如当年那么动听，改变的是我已经失去了当时的追星热忱。

3月6日的演唱会，有人问起有去吗？

笑笑回答：‘没有咯’

‘为什么？你不是很喜欢她们的吗？’得到的是很惊讶的表情

无言。。。

或许成长了点，并不想如此花费父母辛苦赚来的血汗钱。

前几天的大扫除，找出了很多中学时代买的SHE周边产品；当年的一时快乐和荣耀，现在只剩下被遗弃在一旁。曾经统计，为了这个‘兴趣’总共花费了数百的储蓄。

值得吗？ 见仁见智。。。

我建立了与妹妹的良好关系，尝试了第一次的签唱会和演唱会经验，亲身体验遇见偶像时的口吃和心跳加速。好多美好的回忆。。。

到底值得吗？

算是吧？

(开始自言自语了)

演唱会都去过了，现在只剩下与她们合照和偶遇她们的机会了。。。

看来真的发太多明星梦了。。。不过，我还是很希望这一天可以发生 :-P